The Pain of Rebellion at Home

I have a small sticker I bought picturing an old blue type writer with flowers blooming out the top.  It says, “Write Hard and Clear About What Hurts” It’s an Ernest Hemingway quote and a picture of it pops up on my […]

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Separation Anxiety and Abuse

We are designed to reconcile all of our relationships. It’s best that a husband and wife are able to resolve conflicts within the marriage. But that’s not always possible.  But even if the marriage ends in divorce, reconciliation is still the goal. […]

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No Job is Finished Until the Paperwork is Done!

I am a voice crying out in the wilderness. You Can’t Ask for Help When People Are Looking the Other Way! HELP!!!  

The Pain of Pruning

Tonight I’m coming to you with a word about the necessary pain of pruning.  There are so many seasons and while I would like to be in a harvest season, instead it seems like the Lord is pruning me again. I was […]

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HELP!!!

I’m actually not even sure how to write this post. If I could sum it up in one word it would be “HELP!” God has been bringing me back to places of trauma to heal me.  A few years ago a friend […]

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Processing Grief During the Holidays

  As the holidays approach I am always utterly aware that for some people it is not a season of joy but rather a season filled with reminders of loss, hurt and unprocessed pain. This year I’ve decided to give myself and […]

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Explant and Heal

I had the Explant surgery I so desperately needed this week. The surgery was Friday, and today (Monday) I was finally able to cry. At 4am this morning I woke up and realized that today is the last day the nurse will […]

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Straight Talk About Breasts

Have you ever been asked to do something you didn’t want to do?  Sometimes God prompts me to do things that I don’t want to do.  Occasionally  He sets me on a path that doesn’t make sense, feels too difficult, or is […]

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Forgive Your Dad for Father’s Day

So it’s Father’s Day.  You’re feeling grumpy because everyone around you seems to be celebrating a day that you just don’t care about. Why should you?  Your Dad screwed up. He wasn’t there for you like he was supposed to be. You’ve […]

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Unfolding A Miracle: I’m Still Here

On Saturday February 24, 2018 I finished completely printing my entire blog.  I have been walking around pregnant with this testimony for so long.  It has been long over due in coming and I felt tremendous relief to see the pages stacked […]

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